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So I noticed that a group of us tend to post a lot over on the "What's Happening" thread about our kids and thought that maybe the non-spawn having wigbers might appreciate it some of the more kid-centric posts were not on that thread. In that vein I started this thread. If you guys feel it is worth it I'll keep posting here.
Also you people are actually the largest group of sane, responsible parents I know. That is either really cool or really sad. I am not sure which. So the Kid is still not really taking to the potty. At almost 4 it worries me that although she was really premature and the docs told her mom that she would catch up developmentally she should have done so by now. When she turns four she should be able to enter the public school system's free Pre-K program .... if she is out of diapers. Should I be worried? Does anybody have experience with kids that resist the potty so long or kids that were 2 months premature? She knows HOW to do it she just won't or can't remember every time. -- "...one of the internet's rare beanie-headed soul-patched gems." |
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(i know i don't have kids. should i stay out of this thread? i am Second-mom to most of my siblings...)
my younger brother (who is just a little older than your Baby) had a difficult time at first with toilet training. his twin brother had no problem at all, but Leo said he "didn't know how to"! he just really didn't get it - he'd do #1, but #2? while actually sitting on the toilet? nope. we (yes, we, everyone over the age of 12 was helping) just kept after him, sitting him on the toilet after each meal. he knew that if he did go where he should, he'd get a chocolate chip (1 chip) - and he wanted one, because his brother was getting them!  he did end up getting it - some kids just take a little longer.  Mrs. TwiliteMinotaur |
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(I don't have kids either)
All I can say is that it's different with every kid. I have friends with four of the little buggers, and I had the privilege of watching two of them grow from wee little baby to near kindergarten age before they moved to AZ. Their second oldest taught himself how to use the potty, and in two weeks he had it down pat. His younger sister, on the other hand, would sometimes decide to take a #2 wherever was most convenient. She knew that what she was doing was wrong, but she did it anyways. Her younger brother also took to potty training pretty quick. Does the Kid know what she's supposed to be doing on the potty and just refuses to do it? Or does she not yet understand the process? I'm no child expert of any sort, but maybe if you and the Girl figured out the Why of the Kid's reluctance/inability, you might be able to find a good way to get her over the hurdle. On a random kid-related note, little kids can be the easiest people in the world to entertain. I used to babysit for said friends a lot, and finding ways to keep the kids occupied was always fun. I remember one day I was playing World of Warcraft, and had the two youngest in chairs next to me, watching me play and giving helpful advice. So I kept up a running commentary/conversation with them about the game, and next thing I know two hours have gone by with no problems whatsoever. ---------------------------------- This area is no longer a viable place for signatures. We apologize for the inconvenience. |
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Excellent idea moving the topic over here.
Our oldest son was nearly 4 before he got the hang of it, and our youngest son had no interest/understanding of it until he turned 4. So far it's going well with the youngest. They're very cool about at his preschool. |
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my younger brother figured out that the little boys in our family (all under the age of 11) would sit and look at moving things on the computer screen pretty quickly! if someone is on the family desktop in my parents' house, there are usually at least 2 extra chairs pulled over with little ones on them - looking at photos, or watching someone else play games. Mrs. TwiliteMinotaur |
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Sorry - I have tried to not post so much about Joe in there.. but.. he is with me most of the time if I am not working.
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post about Joe with abandon! Mrs. TwiliteMinotaur |
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There was a whole bunch more in that post.. was posting frm bed with my Eee though, so probably leant on the mouse pad and erased it *lol*
Now.. what did it say! How prem was she Edit? We have a friend who's daughter was born at 23+5 (due to complications from an amnio) and it took her till she was about 5 to catch up completely, but she is nearly 7 now and you'd never know she was so early.. And, obviously, nt yet tackling potty training (though we have a potty he sits on while his bath runs, just so its not "wierd" when the time comes!) but from the mummies at my mummy website, it seems that rewards and praise is the way to go (along with special panties to make it seem really special), and they all do it in their own time.. some earlier, some later. One mummy who's son was 4 swore by getting hold of some "real" nappies, as they didn't feel as dry and nice as disposables when he wee'd in them, so he quickly decided he didn't like them and would like to use the potty instead please.. Personally, I'm dreading it *lol* But then, I dreaded crawling, and then walking, and its all be fine so far!!! My little angel is currently putting his carrot flavour puffs in his mouth, and blowing them across the room. OK, wisdom of the WGB. How do I get him to eat vegetables, other than feeding them to him one by one with chopsticks *l* (We have discovered he will eat anything if you feed it to him using chop sticks. This isn't a practical option *L*) This message has been edited. Last edited by: MrsK, |
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I don't think this topic should be closed to anybody, I just wanted to move it off the What's Happening thread out of respect for the rest of the wigbers who might not care about giant poopies and discipline issues.
She was about the same. That makes me feel better but the stuff I am reading says that normally they should catch up before that although there are examples, like your friend, of people that simply take a little longer. I wasn't around then of course but I know she was in the NICU for a month with a 50% chance of survival at birth. 2010 with the Girl at the Bay Area Renn Faire (I swear to god the acronym for it is BARF) 
great pics! and welcome BTW. This message has been edited. Last edited by: editengine, -- "...one of the internet's rare beanie-headed soul-patched gems." |
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A month is *really* good for that early.. And apparently they classed 5 as pretty good for having caught up. I know L was nearly 4 months old before she came home..
I was reading a article about how babies who have spent more than 48 hours in a special care unit are really nosey.. Even though Joe only spent 6 (or 7??) days, I do notice how nosey he is.. apparently its all linked with the noise, beeping, lights etc. |
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Ok I will talk about my kid here. He is 27 now. I had him right when I got out of the Navy. His father was a sailor too. By the age of 2 he swore like a sailor and still does. Otherwise he is a good guy a jokster and a smartass just like dear ol mum.
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CHRIST MOTHER OF JESUS THERE IS A GOD AFTER ALL!  |
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you're not a real parent if you havent done your time with baby puke on your shirt.
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Whenever MOM complains about kids and parents, I try to imagine him as an angry gun-toting baby. It never fails to put a smile on my face. _____________________________ Albert's path is a strange and difficult one. |
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Except MoM, who I plan on messaging with descriptions and full color pics of said poopies. -- "...one of the internet's rare beanie-headed soul-patched gems." |
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Yeah, ours are kinda post-kid too (Alex is 16 going on 25): I certainly can't recall any useful tips for potty training! Fun thread, though.
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Thanks for sharing those photos, and for asking about our recent trip to the Netherlands. We had a great time - particularly at Apenheul & Isjsalon San Marco in Amersfoort! |
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i am not yet a parent, and yet have spent much time with baby puke on my shirt!  (babysitter, big sister)MrsK - Joe sounds hilarious, the chopsticks thing made me crack up! Mrs. TwiliteMinotaur |
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I just imagine him as an angry gun-toting "Hello Kitty"! Or as that photo he used as his avatar when he first showed up here. MOM! was that you in that photo???? I remember it. Post it again. Please, please, please!!! everyone is entitled to my opinion |
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MrsK Maybe a clear soup with a vegetable bouillon (organic) as a base, and dice some carrots, cauliflower, potatoes, zucchini, tomatoes (small pieces) and a bit of sauteed sweet onions and add some noodles (or lentils) and herbs. Give him a big spoon and see what happens. This message has been edited. Last edited by: zapdelight, |
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